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Week 12 with Your Baby

Hello, 3 Months!

Three months—can you believe it? Your tiny newborn is officially a three-month-old baby, and this feels like a big shift.


They’re more social, more aware, and more predictable. You’re also leaving behind the most intense newborn haze. It’s still challenging, but it’s different—you’re seeing more of their personality and getting more rewarding moments.




What’s Happening with Your 3-Month-Old?



  • More social smiles. They smile when you talk, when you sing, or even just walk into the room.

  • Cooing turns into “baby talk.” You might hear more sounds like goo, gah, and sweet little squeals.

  • Better head and neck control. They may hold their head steady when you hold them upright.

  • Hands become fascinating. They might clasp their hands together, stare at them, or start swatting at toys.

  • Tracking with eyes. Your baby can follow moving objects more smoothly.



They’re more awake, more curious, and more fun.




Feeding: More Rhythm



At 3 months, feeding usually feels easier than before.


  • Breastfed babies may feed every 3–4 hours during the day.

  • Bottle-fed babies might take 4–6 ounces every 3–4 hours.

  • Growth spurts still happen, but they’re less frequent than in the early weeks.



Some parents like to see how feeding stretches are changing—if you do, our Best Baby Tracker Apps blog lists simple tools that make it easy.




Sleep: The “Almost” Stage



At this age, sleep may be slightly more predictable.


  • Many babies sleep longer stretches at night—sometimes 6–8 hours.

  • Daytime naps are still short but might start following a loose pattern.

  • Awake windows are about 1.5–2 hours before needing another nap.



You can gently introduce a more consistent bedtime routine—like a bath, quiet cuddles, and dim lights—to help signal “it’s time to sleep.”




Your Body & Mind at 3 Months



Three months postpartum is another turning point for you:


  • Physically, you’re mostly healed, though you may still feel tired.

  • Emotionally, things may feel more stable than the early weeks.

  • You might be craving more you-time, even if it’s just a quick solo coffee or a short walk.



It’s also common to feel a mix of relief and nostalgia—your baby is growing fast, and the newborn phase is officially behind you.




Playtime & Interaction



Playtime is now more interactive and rewarding!


  • Baby talk back-and-forth. When they coo, pause and answer—it’s the start of a conversation.

  • Play with rattles or soft toys. They might reach for or bat at them.

  • Mirror time. Babies love faces, even their own reflection.

  • Tummy time adventures. Add a rolled blanket or a toy in front of them to make it fun.



They’re building strength, coordination, and connection—all through play.




What’s Next?



  • Some babies hit a 12-week developmental leap, which can mean a few clingy or fussy days, followed by new skills.

  • Many parents notice their baby becomes easier to soothe and settles into a more predictable routine after this stage.





A Gentle Reminder



Twelve weeks ago, you were figuring out diapers, feeds, and sleepless nights in a blur. Now you have a baby who smiles at you, coos to you, and lights up when they see you.


You’ve grown together, learned together, and survived the toughest part of early parenthood.


Take a moment to feel proud—you’re doing beautifully.

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